I think kitten is male, hard to confirm at the moment as he is a little skittish It's hard to explain but he seemed a little lost and was crying outside a lot which is how I found him. Hes friendly enough to hang out near me but seems nervous about being touched so he backs up. Which tells me he might be used to people but not strangers? He's also better lit

For everyone's safety, meet in a public place and never send money to strangers to recover a pet. Verify anyone who claims a pet before arranging a meeting.